Gang to Grace

“Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.” ~ 2 Corinithians 5:17

Gerald Johnson was born in the Joodsekamp area of the Knysna township in October of 1990.  This was just a couple of months before our second son was born.  Had we been living in the same part of the world at the time, Gerald could have grown up with my boys.  I imagine they could have thrown the baseball around or played video games together.

Instead, my boys grew up with a very different childhood than Gerald.  Upper middle class.  Taking so many things for granted… a home, food, transportation, education, family, sports, and endless opportunities.

For Gerald, life was much different.  He was the son of a Xhosa father and a coloured mother in a poverty stricken township.  The child of a marriage not accepted by his Xhosa grandparents.  To make matters worse, when Gerald was only 2-years old, his father died in a work accident (he worked with a tree feller).

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Gerald and Kurt

This set Gerald’s life trajectory in motion.  His dad’s parents decided to start selling off everything Gerald’s father owned… including his home.  They said his mother had no claim to any of it, as she was “just” a coloured woman.  A nothing.  And within the next couple of years they even managed to take her children from her (Gerald and his half-sister), pushing her out of their lives.

This was hard for Gerald.  He loved his mom.  He needed his mom.  But he had no choice in the matter.  He was just a small boy.

Gerald doesn’t complain about the years with his grandparents.  They kept food in his stomach and a roof over his head.  And although his grandfather was strict, he cared for him well.  It wasn’t enough for Gerald.  This young boy missed his mom terribly.  So at the age of 9, he ran away to find her.

From that time on, Gerald found himself in and out of the foster care system.  Sometimes he was placed with families, other times in the government orphanage.  He even had a short stay with his mom.  But she is an alcoholic and could not care for him.  He always landed right back in foster care.

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Dorothy Broster Orphanage where Gerald lived at one time.

By the age of 13, Gerald took off running.  Running from the system.  Running from the pain.  Running from Knysna.  He ended up in a town called Sedgefield about a 30 minute drive from Knysna.  There he came across some boys he knew from the orphanage and joined them sleeping on the streets.  Their only means of survival was to steal.  Mostly food.  They just needed to eat.  It was a horrible life.  But it was his life now.  Then Gerald made the mistake of robbing the wrong man one day.  A man who was known for beating kids to death if they stole from him.  When Gerald realized this, he ran.  He ran all the way back to Knysna in fear of his life.

Some of his story gets a little foggy.  I say this because Gerald’s coping mechanism was to escape his life by smoking marijuana and mandrax.  He does know that in 2004 he somehow ended up in a school for wayward boys.  And sometime in 2005 he was back living on the streets in Knysna.  A 15-year old boy, sleeping in a cardboard box in the taxi rank in town.  It breaks my heart when I stop here and remember what my boys were doing at 15… attending a good high school, playing on sports teams, working a part-time job, learning to drive, and much more.  Certainly not sleeping in a cardboard box and wondering whether or not they will have food to eat.

One day while hanging out in the taxi rank, a coloured woman (Blanche) recognized him from when he lived in the orphanage.  She was a Christian woman and used to lead Bible Studies there.  She opened up her home to Gerald and he lived with her family for about 1-1/2 years.  He was back in school, had a roof over his head and food in his stomach.  Yet, because he couldn’t understand the love this family was offering to him, he ran.

He traveled all the way to Capetown this time (a 5-hour drive away).  There he slept on the streets.  He was a beggar and a thief.  He started to learn about prison number gangs, the 26s, 27s and 28s.  He soon aspired to be part of one.

Meanwhile, back home in Knysna, Blanche had different plans for Gerald’s life.  She tracked him down in Capetown and brought him back to live with her family in Knysna again.  It didn’t last.  Gerald soon ran back to the streets.

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Gerald working with Kurt at YFC.

“Why?” I asked Gerald.  “Why would you throw such a great opportunity away?  A bed, food, education, a family?”  He tried to explain it to me.  What he came up with is that he didn’t understand nor could he accept their love.  He wasn’t worthy of it.  And he feared disappointing them.

If it was possible, this time on the streets was rougher.  Gerald met people that had been in the Numbers Gangs in prison and he so wanted to belong to the group with them.  This required certain things.  One of which was to steal for them.  Well, that was no big deal.  He has stolen many times before.  But this time was different.  It wasn’t for food.  It wasn’t for survival.  It was for acceptance.  Acceptance into a gang.  And there just seemed to be a danger about it this time that he couldn’t shake.  He did it anyway.  And he was right.  The police showed up and he and his cousin/brother ran.  Both went different directions.  Gerald picked the wrong way.  He was caught and put into the police car.  As the police drove him around to the other side of the house, Gerald was horrified.  There he saw his cousin/brother.  Hanging on the spiked fence.  Dead.  It appeared that he slipped when climbing the fence and was pierced in through his rib cage and out through his neck.  A tragic, horrific site Gerald will never forget.

And so it began.  At age 16, Gerald was sentenced to 5 years at a juvenile detention center.  Not a place of rehabilitation.  Not even close.  This was the place he learned more about gangs.  More about crime.  More about drugs.  When he was released, he continued on a path of crime.

Gerald didn’t share all of his criminal activity with me, but I know he landed himself right back in prison for robbery.  Prison this time.  Not juvenile detention.  Prison, home of the Numbers Gangs! 

In South Africa, numbers gangs control the prison populations.  Once prisoners are sentenced by the South African Department of Corrections (DOC), they are classified into 3 different categories. These categories are either economic offense, sexual offence or a crime of violence. This determines what gang they will join upon arrival. The 26s are thieves, responsible for gambling, smuggling and accruing wealth in general. The 27s are the guardians of gang law, murderers.  And the 28s are the most senior gang, the warriors.  They accrue wifies within the prison population by raping new prisoners.  They are also in charge of the flow of food supply.  There isn’t a prison in South Africa without numbers gangs.  It is a nationwide brotherhood.  New prisoners are recruited upon entrance.

Gerald worked his way up the ranks of the 26s, eventually becoming a Judge.  This is a high ranking officer who decides the fate of those that break the rules.   Consequences can range from beatings, to rape, to death.  Even though Gerald was willing to tell me his rank in the 26s, he would not disclose what it took to move up in rank.  Nor would he share the many secrets held by each gang.  Members that betray the gang and share the secrets are not safe in any South African prison (or outside). The secretive nature of the gang makes their system of communicating to other prisons unknown. This is what makes them the most dangerous prison gang in the world.

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The stars on Gerald’s shoulders show that he is a Judge in the 26s.

A thug.  A gangster.  Gerald was released from prison in April of 2017 (now 27-years old).  People in the township knew who he was and “feared” him.  He was a high ranking officer in the 26s.  Non-ranking members of the 28s in the township feared he would steal their recruits because of his rank.  This led to an attempt on Gerald’s life.  In November 2017, a “soldier” of the 28s stabbed Gerald with a knife.  Left him to die.  And he should have.  It was plunged 2 inches deep into his heart.

God had other plans for our friend.  Gerald spent weeks in the hospital trying to survive and then recuperate.  Doctors convened trying to decide if his body could handle heart surgery.  They decided it couldn’t.  Instead, they inserted a drain and  after a month’s stay, Gerald was sent home.

Still bandaged up, he went back to his old way of life.  A thief.  This time, this theft, changed his life forever…

Gerald stole a phone from a younger boy (Danville) in the township. What do you know?  It was the wrong boy to steal from.  After the robbery, Danville was riding in the car with our friend Chris (a missionary now living in Knysna) and discretely pointed Gerald out to him.  Much to Danville’s horror,  Chris stopped the car to confront Gerald.  This was Gerald.  Judge of the 26s.  I’m guessing Danville slid down in his seat, out of site.  Well, funny thing.. not only did Chris get the phone back, but he took time to share something with Gerald that would change his life forever.  He shared Christ.

Hungry to hear more, Gerald met with Chris the following day.   He heard that his life matters.  He is highly valued.  God loves him so much, that he sent his son to die on the cross for him.  Gerald’s heart was finally healed, spiritually.  He accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior.  And in February, Kurt and I had the privilege of watching Gerald publicly profess Christ at his baptism.

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Gerald’s baptism.

I wish I could say Gerald’s life is easier now.  It isn’t.  He still lives in a run down shack that costs about $25 U.S. per month to rent.  His long time girlfriend broke up with him.  His mother is still an alcoholic and losing her eye site to cataracts.  

What I can say is that his life is better.  He focuses on what he does have.  He has a brand new job at a glass company (his very first job ever).  He has a new family in Christ.  He has joy.  Most of all he has Christ!

A true story of God’s redeeming love.

Our God is an awesome God! ~ Tracy Cooper

 

The “Unprotected” – Part 1

“Every kid is one caring adult away from being a success story” ~ Annonymous

When I think back to the birth of my first child, I remember feeling so much love, hope, excitement and fear all at the same time.  My heart was so full.  I knew I would do anything for this sweet little baby.  Love him.  Feed him.  Hold him.  Teach him.  PROTECT him.  Yes, I think for most mothers, one of our strongest motherly instincts is to protect our child.  If anyone tries to harm our little one, our “mother-bear” instincts surface.  We are ready to protect our child at all costs.  And for me, I was blessed to experience this with each of my four children!

Unfortunately though, this is not the case for many children in the township.  They do not have a mom to protect them.  Not necessarily because she is absent in body, but because she is absent in mind.  Many are orphaned due to the unhealthy addictions plaguing the moms. (I say the moms, because quite frankly the fathers are rarely in the picture by the time the baby is born).   These moms lose their “mother-bear” instinct to protect their baby when they allow their addictions to take over their lives.  They choose alcohol, drugs and men over their sweet, innocent babies.  And because of this self destructive behavior, the defenseless babies are left orphaned on the street.

Well this is the very sad and short ending to the life story of so many children.  But for a few others, it isn’t.  There is a woman of great faith, who lives in the township, and is determined to help write a new chapter in the life stories of many orphaned children.  A chapter full of love, hope and faith.  A new beginning.  A new life.  A new family.

I have known Ella for 4 years, and like many, she has a long story of her own.  Today, however, I want to introduce to you the children God has helped Ella rescue throughout the township.  Some she has found on her own, others have been brought to her by relatives of the children or social services.

The stories are brief, mostly because the children were so young when they arrived at Ella’s.  Also, because of their young ages, many were too young to understand their full story.

Meet my friend Tracy:

I have known Tracy for the past 4 years.  She and I had an instant connection because of our name.  Unlike many other children, I could actually pronounce her name!  Tracy is 9-years old now, but came to Ella’s (Lukhanyiso Safe House) at the young age of 3-years.  She was brought to Ella by Child Protection Services after she and her younger brother Toffee were removed from their home. Tracy, a 3-year old innocent little baby was being sexually abused in her own home.  Her mother was an alcoholic and could not function in a way to protect her baby.

Because of the violence she endured in her young life, Tracy did not transition easily into Ella’s care.  She suffered from post-traumatic syndrome, and did not trust anyone.  She was constantly screaming and crying.  With love, prayer, tender care, counseling and time to begin healing, Tracy has become a happy, confident young lady.  She attends Knysna Primary School in town where she is in grade 4.  She is learning English and speaks it quite well for a 9-year old.  Her favorite extra curricular activities are playing net ball and running sprints.  She has always had the role of “drama queen” in the house, but as she matures she is slowly passing that role on to a younger “sister”.

Tracy stills suffers from fetal alcohol syndrome, but all in all, she is doing well.  Her life story now has a new, more hopeful chapter.

Tracy’s little brother is named Toffee.  His given name is Fikile and he is 7-years old.  When he and his sister, Tracy were brought to Lukhanyiso Safe House, Toffee was only 2-months old.  He was filthy dirty and starving to death.  A very sad and inexcusable situation for a helpless 2-month old baby.  Ella took Toffee straight to the clinic to have him checked.  Afterwards, she gently stripped him of his rags, gave him a nice warm bath (probably the first one in his 2-months of life, dressed him in clean clothes, fed him a warm bottle and cuddled him.  Since that day, he has the mom every baby deserves.   A mom to protect him. To love him.  To guide him.

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Toffee at 2-months

Toffee (nicknamed that, because Ella says he is so sweet), attends Knysna Christian Mission School.  He is in Grade 1 and starting to learn English.  He is a happy little guy with a lot of personality.

The next sibling pair is Beauty and Stephen…

Beauty is a thriving 9-year old little girl now.  However, when she arrived at Ella’s house, she was possibly the most neglected child Ella had ever seen.  At the age of 1-1/2 years old, this sweet little baby girl was found by a police officer in the street in the middle of the night.  A baby with no name and no parents.  He picked her up and brought her straight to Lukhanyiso Safe House for the night, where Ella named her Beauty.  Six months went by before anybody in her family even started to look for her.  And it was determined that she would stay living with Ella and her new family.  During Beauty’s first year in Ella’s care, she was a very shy and withdrawn child.  She never made one sound… no crying, no screaming, no laughing, no talking.  Nothing.   Ella would bring Beauty into her bed at night and hold her, but when Ella woke up, Beauty was off of the bed, curled up on the floor. It was obvious that she had very little attachment or bonding to a mom. But as time went on, Beauty came out of her little shell.  She is a sweet young girl and attends Knysna Christian Mission School with many of her siblings.  She too is learning to speak English.  The reason I mention this with the children is because their native tongue is Xhosa.  South Africa has 11 official languages, but all children must learn English.

Stephen is 4-years old and is Beauty’s little brother.  They both have the same mom, but I really don’t know if they have the same dad.  Both of Stephen’s parents are alcoholics.  He was removed from their home when he was just 4-months old and brought to live with Ella in the Safe House. His and Beauty’s mom usually shows up drunk to the Safe House about every two years or so to try to see the kids.  Stephen is a happy young little guy.  He is learning English in the Mama Mia Preschool.

 

These are the stories of 4 of Ella’s children.  She currently has 14 children living in her home and 12 more children for which she has taken on the financial reponsibility.  Unfortunately every one of her children have similar stories.  I will try to introduce you to a few at a time throughout my blogs.

Ella lives modestly in the township and has hired a small staff to help care for and transport the children.  Her expenses run around $200 U.S. per child per month.  This is for food, clothes, school uniforms, school tuitions, staff fees, etc.

She and her business partner Penny have opened a township tour company called Emzini Tours to try to help cover the expenses of the Lukhanyiso Safe House.  With the needs so great, they are always looking for sponsors.

If you feel called to sponsor one of Ella’s children on a monthly basis, or make a one-time donation, please click on the link below and follow the steps. In the comments, type Lukhanyiso Safe House.  All donations are tax deductible and will go directly to the care of Ella’s children.  ~Tracy Cooper

https://mygiving.secure.force.com/GXDonateNow?id=a0Ui000000WKZkVEAX